Comments on: Etidal Abdullah – Missing Muslim Sister in Lackawanna, NY – Action Required Now!

By: bilal

bilal — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 18:19:24 +0000

In all likelihood, Etidal ran off with her boyfriend. She this is a domestic issue, one where her family disappoved of her choice of spouse.

By: Sis

Sis — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 20:20:56 +0000

As of Oct 10th, she was still missing. And only Allah knows if she actually ran away. Make no assumptions, just make dua for her safe return, and pass no judgment, inshaAllah

By: kat

kat — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 23:51:17 +0000

inshaallah the girl gets home safe and sound.. hopefully her family just tries to forget about everything and just get on with their lives..

By: happiness

happiness — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 23:35:07 +0000

By: skiesthelimit

skiesthelimit — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 23:29:22 +0000

I dont blame her for leaving… Alot of people talk about how she is wrong leaving her family like she did, but no one knows what she have been going through. I dont know the girl but i knew another yemeni girl who ranaway over something similar. their parents force them into marrying someone they dont want to, they dont give them any type of freedom and they dont have trust. All muslim families are not like this but the ones who are maybe they will think twice about makin decisions for their children. Im muslim and im fine my parents trust me i go ot school, work and im able to hang out with friends and half of them aren’t even musilm.. they taught me the wrong and right decisions to make and they trust me .maybe thats what more muslim families should do ecspecially in america…

By: tootrue

tootrue — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 09:15:33 +0000

I want to marry her, seriously, she seems like my type.

And she’s beautiful masha’Allah.

By: Alia

Alia — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 06:56:12 +0000

Did they really find her? Force marriages is not allowed in islaam. The family should let her marry whoever she wants. So many girls go through so much nonsense by being forced into a marriage or even the lesser form which is coercion. It is like going through a psychological hell.
It takes a lot of sabr and tawaqul to ‘alal Allaah to stick through a coerced marriage for whatever reason. Subhanallaah, may Allaah protect that sister and give her sakinah and peace and eemaan in her heart to go through the difficult time. May her family forgive her for running away and Allaah open their minds to understand her and not force her to do something against her will, ameen.

By: YMN KING

YMN KING — Sun, 21 Sep 2008 19:09:11 +0000

did anyone of you asked himself or herself why she did that? did you all know familys in usa acting stupid with thier ( teens)kids? do u know we yemenis are not the same yemenis anymore? i mean why when guys from yemen ( poor or rich ) ask for girls hands , they have to go through a lot of craps just to get married.? girls now date because familys say no no no mostlly brothers and uncles not even the fathers. so it is normal if she ran away..she is not the first nor the last ..salam and kulman ma3ah shubaak yegh6eeeeh webas.

By: Mumunah

Mumunah — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 09:29:39 +0000

Maybe she was unhappy. When you are displeased with your husband and he is with you (for whatever reason, God forbid) do you two not seperate for a while? I think she just needed space to clear her head.

By: komal

komal — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 04:41:58 +0000

http://www.wivb.com/Global/story.asp?S=9002766